Character Vs Personality

 


Character may impede the development of our personality and hence the success of our worldly pursuits. Perhaps this is the notion that prevents these days, the people from focussing on character and makes them concentrate more on their personality. We find here and there, in fact everywhere, personality development institutes running parallel personality development programmes, but nowhere we come across any institute conducting even a single programme, which may be termed as character centric.

Character is the reflection of our conscience while the personality is merely an organized frame of our senses. Personality is like a utensil and even if it is made of gold, it will still stink if the stuff it carries is degraded. And on the other hand, even if it is made of clay, but is filled with something pure and precious, it shall always be proud of its worthy possession. Personality may equip us with the power to distinguish between the right and the wrong, but it is the character that gives us the strength to stand by the righteousness.

The world of the day has developed all types of artificiality. In its chase for simulating, it has travelled miles and miles so as to create even the artificial intelligence. No doubt the affectation may deliver all the material pleasures but it is taking us away from the truth called the fulfilment and the satisfaction that keeps our soul radiant enabling it to merge with the One, who created it. God wants us to be rich in affection, which only a pure soul is capable of harvesting. The personality at the most may help us reap a good harvest of affectation, but the pretentiousness, as we all know, has no intrinsic value and hence unsustainable.

In the end I would again implore that for building a healthy society, we have to strengthen our character, since the personality despite being proficient in creating numerous artifices, can never attain the enthusiasm of character that is sure to realize the brightness even on a hazy day.


Comments

  1. GurmeetApril 19, 2022 at 4:17 AM

    Very thoughtful sir. Great piece of writing ✍️👏👏

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  2. UnknownApril 19, 2022 at 8:21 AM

    Only a person with strong character could reflect so deeply on this differentiation... Actually character building needs to be the pivot of our education and everything other accomplishment is peripheral to it....

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  3. Pritam SinghApril 19, 2022 at 10:06 AM

    Well articulated

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